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03:55
Buyer’s Remorse Is Normal: What First-Time Homebuyers Need to Know
You just bought your first home—and suddenly, fear creeps in. “Did I make the right decision?” “What if I can’t afford this?” “What if I made a mistake?” This episode breaks down the truth about buyer’s remorse and why it’s way more common than you think. I’m Shakema, real estate educator and mindset coach, and I help first-time buyers—especially those over 35—navigate the emotional rollercoaster of buying a home. 🎯 In this video, you’ll learn: • Why buyer’s remorse shows up (even when it's your dream home) • What’s really going on with your nervous system • 5 powerful ways to navigate the fear, doubt, and regret • How to ground yourself with grace and clarity 💛 Whether you’re already under contract or just bought a home, this message is for you. 👇 Drop a 💛 or “That’s Me” if this resonated. 📧 Grab your free mindset and real estate tools at: https://www.thewealthyme.com 🔔 Subscribe for more grounded real estate advice and purpose-led wealth conversations. 📢 Share this with a friend who just bought a home! buyer’s remorse first time homebuyer, homebuyer regret, what to expect after buying a home, first home fear, under contract now what, emotional side of homeownership, first time buyer mindset, how to deal with buyer’s remorse, homebuyer anxiety, buying a house stress, mindset and real estate, the wealthy me, shakema realtor, shakema mindset coach Experiencing that sinking feeling after signing the papers? 🤔 This video addresses how to deal with buyers remorse after buying a home, especially for first time home buyer. I'm sharing real estate tips to navigate those emotions, so you feel confident in your decision and ready to tackle that mortgage!
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The Emotional Timeline Between Offer and Closing Table
You’ve gone under contract… now what? If you’re feeling overwhelmed, anxious, or even second-guessing your decision, this episode is for you. Shakema —Realtor, mindset coach, and founder of The Wealthy Me™—walks you through the emotional stages most buyers experience between offer acceptance and closing day. From the rush of excitement to the stress of inspections, loan approval, and final walkthrough, this episode offers practical mindset tools to help you stay grounded, empowered, and clear every step of the way. Whether you’re a first-time buyer or navigating the process solo over 35 or 40, this conversation will help you feel seen, prepared, and supported. 🧠 Key Takeaways: • What really happens emotionally after your offer is accepted • How to manage fear, doubt, and nervous system overload • Mindset tips to stay calm through inspections, appraisals, and closing delays • Tools to help you stay focused on your WHY 🔗 www.TheWealthyMe.com 📲 Instagram: @the_wealthy_me ⚠️ Disclaimer: This video is for educational and motivational purposes only. Always consult your licensed real estate and financial professionals before making any property decisions. buyer’s remorse real estate, regret after buying a home, homebuyer anxiety, first time buyer fears, how to overcome buyer’s remorse, wealth mindset real estate, mindset reset homeownership, buying house regret, emotional side of buying a house, over 35 first time buyer, shakema wealthy me Buying a home is an emotional rollercoaster, and understanding the home buying process is key. Learn some real estate tips to prepare for what happens after your offer is accepted. I'm breaking down the emotional timeline and offering first time home buyer tips and advice to navigate the stresses of closing on a house.
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03:29
How to Beat Home Buyer's Remorse Fast!
You finally bought a home… so why do you feel regret? In this honest, heart-centered episode, I’m breaking down what buyer’s remorse really is—especially for first-time buyers and folks over 35 who are building wealth later in life. I’m Shakema A., Realtor, mindset coach, and founder of The Wealthy Me™, and today we’re talking about the emotional aftermath of making one of the biggest purchases of your life. 🎯 You’ll learn: • Why buyer’s remorse is more common than you think • How trauma, fear, and mindset shifts play into it • 5 ways to coach yourself through the post-closing panic • A real-world journaling tip to stay grounded and grateful 💛 Buying a home is a big deal—and it’s okay to feel big emotions. 👇🏽 Drop a 💛 in the comments if this resonated 🗣️ Share with a friend who just bought a home or is under contract 📬 Subscribe + visit https://www.thewealthyme.com for real estate and mindset support buyer’s remorse real estate, regret after buying a home, homebuyer anxiety, first time buyer fears, how to overcome buyer’s remorse, wealth mindset real estate, mindset reset homeownership, buying house regret, emotional side of buying a house, over 35 first time buyer, shakema wealthy me ⚠️ Disclaimer: This video is for educational and motivational purposes only. Always consult your licensed real estate and financial professionals before making any property decisions. 🏠 Experiencing that post-purchase panic? Let's navigate that buyers remorse together! Whether it's a new home or a big investment property, I'm sharing tips to reaffirm your decision making and ease those anxieties. Get some financial advice to help guide your mortgage choices.
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I’m Under Contract—Now What? How to Manage the Emotional Rollercoaster from Offer to Closing
🎯 You’re under contract on a home — and suddenly, the fear sets in. Did I make the right decision? What if something goes wrong? Can I really afford this? ✨ In this episode of The Wealthy Me, I’m walking you through the emotional rollercoaster between offer and closing — and giving you 4 powerful mindset tools to help you stay grounded and confident. I’m Shakema, a real estate professional and mindset coach, and I specialize in helping first-time homebuyers — especially over 35 — buy with clarity, purpose, and emotional confidence. 🏡 Inside this episode: ✅ Why post-offer anxiety is totally normal 🧠 The hidden mindset shifts that come up after going under contract 🛠️ 4 powerful tools to reduce fear and stay focused 💛 How to anchor back into your WHY and feel emotionally safe while building wealth 💬 COMMENT: Are you under contract right now or have been before? What emotions came up for you? 🔔 Subscribe for more videos on homebuying, mindset, and wealth-building at any stage of life. 📲 Follow: @the_wealthy_me 🌐 Visit: www.TheWealthyMe.com ⚠️ Disclaimer: This video is for educational and motivational purposes only. Always consult your licensed real estate and financial professionals before making any property decisions. #UnderContractNowWhat #FirstTimeHomebuyerTips #HomebuyingAnxiety #RealEstateCoach #TheWealthyMe #EmotionalWealth #MindsetTools #HomeownershipOver35 #ClosingDayCountdown #BuyersRemorse #WealthBuildingJourney #RealEstateWisdom #HealingCenteredWealth #FinancialConfidence 📥 Grab your free guide: 5 Myths Keeping You Stuck & How to Break Free 👉 https://bit.ly/40PHtvG 📞 Need help fixing your credit? Schedule a consultation with me: 👉 http://bit.ly/47dd5PB Buying a home can be stressful, especially for a first time home buyer. If you're experiencing home buying stress, know that you're not alone; it's common to feel anxiety relief is needed during the home buying process. As your trusted realtor, I'm here to help navigate the stress and make buying a home a smoother experience.
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03:11
Why Healing-Centered Wealth Is the Future of Financial Freedom
We don’t talk about it enough… You can have all the income, the investments, the success… and still feel empty inside. If you’ve ever wondered why success doesn’t always feel as fulfilling as it looks—this episode is for you. 🟡 I’m Shakema — Realtor, Wealth Educator, and Founder of The Wealthy Me™ — and I believe the future of financial freedom is rooted in healing. In this episode, I’m sharing: ✨ The silent truth behind burnout, money shame, and emotional exhaustion ✨ Why traditional wealth-building advice often misses the mark ✨ How healing-centered wealth changes everything ✨ My personal story of burnout during the pandemic — and what it taught me ✨ Why your emotional safety must be part of your financial strategy Because real wealth is about more than numbers. Wealth is wholeness. 📥 Free Resource: “What’s Your Financial Story?” – Guided Reflection Journal Prompt 👉 [Insert Link] 💬 Share your thoughts in the comments: What role has healing played in your financial life? Let’s talk about it. 📲 Follow: @the_wealthy_me 🌐 Learn more: www.TheWealthyMe.com ⚠️ Disclaimer: This content is for storytelling and educational purposes only. Please seek licensed professional guidance for financial, mental health, or therapeutic needs. #TheWealthyMe #HealingCenteredWealth #MoneyMindset #BurnoutRecovery #FinancialWholeness #EmotionalWealth #WealthHealing #LegacyBuilding #MoneyTrauma #PurposeDrivenWealth #PersonalFinanceForWomenOver40 #BlackWomenAndBurnout Going under contract on a home can bring on unexpected feelings, and this video addresses that head-on. As a real estate agent, I understand the home buying anxiety many first time home buyers experience. Let's explore how to buy a home with confidence and address those concerns, so you can move forward towards owning your dream home.
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05:33
The Hardest Phone Call I Ever Had to Make — And How It Shaped My Mission
I did everything right. Graduated top 10 in my class. Earned scholarships. Got into my dream school. But when the money ran out, the system failed me. And I had to make the hardest phone call of my life. 📍This is the story of heartbreak, delay, and ultimate resilience. I’m Shakema — Realtor, Wealth Educator, and Purpose Coach — and this moment shaped everything I believe about self-worth, money, legacy, and why The Wealthy Me™ exists. 🎯 In this episode: 💔 How a broken system nearly derailed my future 🌀 The emotional cost of being told “you’re not eligible” ✨ The long journey back to my dreams — one class, one paycheck at a time 💛 The deeper purpose behind everything I do 💬 COMMENT BELOW: Have you ever had to walk away from a dream — and find a way back? 📲 Instagram: @the_wealthy_me 🌐 Learn more: www.TheWealthyMe.com ⚠️ Disclaimer: This content is for storytelling and educational inspiration only. Please consult a licensed professional for financial or academic guidance. #TheWealthyMe #DelayedNotDenied #MoneyAndMindset #PurposeDrivenWealth #DreamsDelayed #FinancialHealing #EducationalInjustice #LegacyBuilders #ResilienceJourney #BlackWomenAndWealth #SelfWorthAndMoney #ComebackStories
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03:05
Seeing Others is a Form of Wealth Too
We often think of wealth in terms of income, assets, and status. But what if wealth was also measured by how you see others? By the safe spaces you create, the encouragement you offer, the way you recognize someone’s light when they’re still learning to see it themselves? ✨ I’m Shakema — Realtor, Wealth Educator, and Purpose Coach — and in this episode of The Wealthy Me™, I’m sharing a story that reminded me how deep, powerful, and relational wealth really is. In this episode: 💛 A real-life workplace story that left a lasting impression 💛 Why “seeing someone” is one of the most profound gifts you can give 💛 How leadership, legacy, and healing all tie into wealth 💛 A gentle reminder that your impact is your wealth 💬 COMMENT BELOW: Who saw you before you saw yourself? Who have you seen and supported into their next level? 📲 Follow: @the_wealthy_me 🌐 Learn more: www.TheWealthyMe.com ⚠️ Disclaimer: This content is for storytelling and inspiration. Please consult appropriate professionals for career or financial advice. #TheWealthyMe #HealingCenteredWealth #PurposeDrivenLeadership #LegacyWork #EmotionalWealth #LeadershipWithHeart #BlackWomenInLeadership #WealthIsImpact #FinancialWholeness #EmpoweredLeadership #SeeTheirLight #RelationalWealth #ModernLegacy
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Welcome To The Wealthy Me!
Welcome To The Wealthy Me!
Overcoming Financial Blocks
Money Myths Busted by The Wealthy Me
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05:53
You Don’t Need to Be an Entrepreneur to Build Wealth (Finale!)
Welcome to the final episode of The Wealthy Me Myth-Busting Series! 🎉 Today we’re busting one of the most toxic and misunderstood beliefs out there: That you HAVE to become an entrepreneur to be wealthy. I’m Shakema—Realtor, Wealth Educator, and Purpose Coach—and I help people over 40 build wealth their way. Whether through your career, real estate, investing, or side hustles, you can create a financially free future without quitting your job or starting a business. Inside this episode: ✅ Why entrepreneurship isn’t the only (or most common) path to wealth ✅ How to build wealth using your 9-to-5 ✅ Simple investing strategies that work—even on a small budget ✅ How real estate can change your financial trajectory ✅ How to design a plan that fits YOUR life 📥 Grab your free guide: 5 Myths Keeping You Stuck & How to Break Free 👉 https://bit.ly/40PHtvG 💬 Tell me in the comments: What’s YOUR path to wealth—career, real estate, entrepreneurship, or a mix? Let’s inspire each other! 📚 Book Recommendations: Quit Like a Millionaire – Kristy Shen & Bryce Leung Work Optional – Tanja Hester The Path – Peter Mallouk & Tony Robbins 📺 Watch the full Myth-Busting Series Playlist 👉 [Insert Playlist Link] 📲 Follow: @the_wealthy_me 🌐 Visit: www.TheWealthyMe.com ⚠️ Disclaimer: This content is for educational purposes only and does not constitute financial advice. Always consult a professional before making financial decisions.
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08:57
You Don’t Need Perfect Credit to Build Wealth (Let’s Fix What Matters)
Think you need an 800+ credit score to buy a home, start a business, or build wealth? Think again. In this episode of The Wealthy Me Myth-Busting Series, I’m debunking the myth that perfect credit is required—and showing you how to take control of your financial future with the score you have right now. I’m Shakema—Realtor, Wealth Educator, and Purpose Coach—and I help people over 40 take back their power by rebuilding credit, owning real estate, and creating purpose-driven wealth. In this episode: ✅ What lenders really look for (hint: it’s not just your score) ✅ 3 simple fixes that can raise your credit fast ✅ How to use credit as a tool to build wealth—not debt ✅ Who qualifies for credit repair and how to get help 📥 Download your FREE guide: 5 Myths Keeping You Stuck & How to Break Free 👉 https://bit.ly/40PHtvG 📞 Need help fixing your credit? Schedule a consultation with me: 👉 http://bit.ly/47dd5PB 💬 COMMENT: What’s the biggest credit myth YOU used to believe? 📚 Book Recommendations: Your Score – Anthony Davenport Credit Repair Kit for Dummies – Steve Bucci The Total Money Makeover – Dave Ramsey (for contrast + conversation) 📲 Follow: @the_wealthy_me 🌐 Visit: www.TheWealthyMe.com ⚠️ Disclaimer: This video is for educational purposes only. Results may vary. This is not legal or financial advice.
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Should You Rent or Buy? Why Homeownership Isn’t Always the Best Move
Is buying a home always better than renting? Not necessarily. In this episode of The Wealthy Me Myth-Busting Series, we’re challenging one of the most common financial myths—and breaking down when homeownership makes sense, and when it could actually set you back. I’m Shakema—Realtor, Wealth Educator, and Purpose Coach—helping people over 40 build purpose-driven wealth, one smart decision at a time. Today’s episode is your guide to making the right choice for your finances, your lifestyle, and your future. In this episode: ✅ The true costs of owning a home (beyond your mortgage) ✅ Why renting isn’t “throwing money away” ✅ How to know if you’re financially and mentally ready to buy ✅ The 3 questions to ask yourself before you make your next move ✅ Why renting can actually help you build wealth—if done right 📥 Grab your FREE guide: 5 Myths Keeping You Stuck & How to Break Free 👉 https://bit.ly/40PHtvG 💬 Sound off in the comments: Are you Team Buy or Team Rent right now? What’s your biggest concern? 📚 Book Recommendations: Home Buying for Dummies – Eric Tyson Set for Life – Scott Trench The Bogleheads’ Guide to Investing – Larimore, Lindauer, LeBoeuf 📲 Follow: @the_wealthy_me 🌐 Visit: www.TheWealthyMe.com ⚠️ Disclaimer: This video is for educational purposes only. Please consult a licensed real estate professional or financial advisor before making any major decisions.
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You Don’t Need to Be Rich to Build Wealth (Start Where You Are!)
Think you need to be rich to start building wealth? Think again. In this episode of The Wealthy Me Myth-Busting Series, I’m breaking down why that mindset is keeping you stuck—and showing you how to build real wealth starting with what you have. ✨ I’m Shakema—Realtor, Wealth Educator, and Purpose Coach—specializing in helping people over 40 rewrite their financial story, shift their money mindset, and start building wealth with confidence. In this episode: ✅ The #1 lie about money that keeps people broke ✅ Why wealth has nothing to do with your salary ✅ How to start investing—even with $50/month ✅ How homeownership is more accessible than you think ✅ Real steps you can take today to shift from survival to strategy 📥 Download your free guide: 5 Myths Keeping You Stuck & How to Break Free 👉 https://bit.ly/40PHtvG 💬 COMMENT: What’s one money habit you wish you had started sooner? 🛎️ Subscribe for more wealth-building episodes every week. 📚 Book Recommendations: The Millionaire Next Door – Thomas J. Stanley I Will Teach You to Be Rich – Ramit Sethi Smart Women Finish Rich – David Bach 📲 Follow on Instagram: @the_wealthy_me 🌐 Visit: www.TheWealthyMe.com ⚠️ Disclaimer: This content is for informational purposes only and should not be taken as financial advice. Always consult a professional before making financial decisions.
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The Lies We've Been Told About Wealth (And Why You’re Not Too Late to Start)
Are you over 40 and still waiting for the “right time” to build wealth? You’ve been lied to—and those lies are keeping you stuck. In this first episode of The Wealthy Me Myth-Busting Series, we’re breaking down the toxic myths that stop people—especially those over 40—from owning homes, repairing credit, or believing they’re worthy of financial success. ✨ I’m Shakema, a Realtor, Wealth Educator, and Purpose Coach—and I created this series to set the record straight. If you’ve ever thought: “I need to be rich to build wealth” “It’s too late to start over” “My credit is too bad to buy a home” …it’s time to unlearn the lies. 📥 Grab the Free Guide: 5 Myths Keeping You Stuck & How to Break Free 👉 https://bit.ly/40PHtvG 💬 COMMENT below: What’s one money myth you used to believe? 🛎️ SUBSCRIBE to get notified when the next episode drops. 📚 Book Recommendations: You Are a Badass at Making Money – Jen Sincero The Psychology of Money – Morgan Housel We Should All Be Millionaires – Rachel Rodgers 🔗 Stay connected: Instagram: @the_wealthy_me Podcast: Faithfully Funded + The Wealthy Me Website: www.TheWealthyMe.com ⚠️ Disclaimer: The information in this video is for educational purposes only and is not financial advice. Always consult with a licensed financial professional.
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